Me and a buddy had an apartment at Brown Trail apartments in 1976. We did everything we could to make sure it was a 24 hour 7 day a week party there.
Somebody brought Cathey over. She was 17, and they said she was a Raiderette. She was the first Raiderette to ever come to our place.
So there she was, a gorgeous long legged blonde with a shapely figure and those blue eyes-- did I say she was blonde-- and I dont know how it came up but I managed to tell her that her ass was a little big for my taste and she slapped me and left.
Forty years later when we started going out she asked me why I had said that to her all those years before.
"Because you were so pretty, and your legs were so long and your entire body so lovely, and your bosom so firm, and you had those Cupid's bow lips, and all that blonde hair and I could barely stand there in front of you without fainting"
"Yes" she said "But what about my ass?"
I blushed and hung my head. "It was perfect too."
Cathey and I went together for about two years 3/2017 to 4/2019.
We enjoyed each others company immensely, and stayed in touch even after we were no longer a thing. Sometimes that's just how love goes. She stayed in such pain and in such poor health I sometimes didn't know how she managed to stay so happy and so pretty. Sometimes it took her a long time to get ready to go somewhere, and sometimes when she finally got ready we would both just decide to stay in and watch Game Of Thrones for the 16th time. And that was just fine. I have a lot of pics of Cathey, and some of these are from the first time we went to Oklahoma to an Art Show and Music Festival where my son was playing. She had just gotten all the bones removed from her feet and I got to push her around in a wheelchair It felt good doing that. Cathey always made me feel good, especially about other people, and that made me feel good about myself at a time in my life I really needed to try to feel good about me.
Rest In Peace Cathey, Gone Too Soon
9/11/1959 ~ 4/15/2021
